Category Archives: parties

Ye Olde Holidays-Again

We have officially entered the high holiday season in the U.S.A, and the west in general.; with Halloween, Thanksgiving Day, Hanukkah, Christmas, Kwanzaa, and New Year’s Day. Holidays mean food, presents, food, alcohol, food, discomfort, food, resolutions; or this has been the pattern in my past. Nowadays I am more into a healthy defensive mode, and think about foods I can make that will allow my spouse and I to join in the general celebrations, while we keep in mind that there are pitfalls lining the holiday pathway. I know my concerns, and I suspect you know yours. There is one particular brand of fruit cake I always had at Christmas, though I doubt now I would really like it all that much, especially since one slice has more carbs than I eat in a month now–and I never ate just one slice.

I have been making some things we like a lot getting ready for our upcoming Thanksgiving. I made a sugar-free cranberry sauce, and a cranberry relish; these freeze well, and this is the rare time in the year that I can find organic cranberries, so it’s stock up time.  I have made and bought some very low carb bread which will be part of a stuffing and a bread pudding, both helping to keep to my new ketogenic diet.  Turkey is a must, since I love it fresh roasted and in all the many ways it can be used as left overs, plus those bones make up several pints of healthy bone broth.  Celery, turnip, kohlrabi, onion, get roasted and used in small amounts, but they keep well.

For dessert I have a wonderful pumpkin chiffon pie recipe I make with no sugar, only a few stevia drops, and a chocolate mousse, my maple walnut butter treats, all with the same stevia treatment; along with flax crackers and a plethora of incredible cheeses for starters. So we are set to have a good time. I find people enjoy what we bring to the gatherings as much as the SAD foods, and it takes us out of the idea that we are deprived, since clearly we are not with this bit of planning.

Festivals and celebrations are inextricably linked with food, but food should not dominate our lives; still, for those of us who are sugaraholics, there must be attention paid to the holiday and other celebration pitfalls. We have no need at all, or excuse, to give in to the treats if we have our own safe and delicious alternatives.

Yours in celebration,

Nan aka Sugarbaby

Food & the New York City Wedding

We spent four days in NYC for a family wedding. Our combined families meant a lot of big meals to go with sightseeing, rehearsal, get togethers, the wedding reception, etc; plus too much drinking. I had to make this my 10% when my eating is less strict, but worked to keep the fat high to offset any sugars.

The main thing that happens to me now is indigestion, and a great sense of relief to be home and back to my good eating.

On the way home as we drove out of the city, I felt so happy about the happy couple, the two families joining, getting to see many family members that we rarely see, and feeling like I handled the food pretty well with no serious  blips, and no binges. Back home now, and  glad I can avoid indigestion for another year or two.

Yours in real life and the occasional bi-carb,

Nan aka Sugarbaby

Went to a Wedding

My beloved and I went to the wedding of one his nephews yesterday a situation that I usually worry about a little since both drink and food are plentiful and used to trip me up.  I decided to avoid Pitfall #1, or alcohol, which then made it far less likely that I would hit Pitfall#2 and eat anything I shouldn’t.  I was very happy with my club soda and lime, then the supper buffet had some lovely roasted meats, chicken, and a lots of crudite and  green salad. I did skip the cake, but didn’t mind that.

The problem with parties for most of us is apt to be the liquor, for if you are on a low carb/HFLC/Paleo type of diet   you are much more susceptible to the effects of alcohol which goes straight to the liver and then the brain. I find that just one glass of wine or spirits can make me a bit silly; as a result I try to avoid it unless I’m home when for whatever reason I seem less likely to want more than one. One-and-done is our family motto with alcohol, and for the most part it works for me. But three times I got very tipsy, in my early no sugar-starch-artificial sweetener days,  on just a couple glasses of wine, which is a feeling I particularly dislike. I want to be in control of my faculties. Most people who drink too much make themselves ridiculous, and I have witnessed those at every big wedding reception or party.

As I blogged earlier, this is the beginning of the holiday/party season and it is good to have a plan.  My plan yesterday worked well.  Besides, I have just as much fun by avoiding the things I would later regret, and don’t feel one iota deprived.  So the wedding was a win-win for me, and my spouse who had his one drink, and we came home pleased at having seen family and friends, witnessing the ritual send-off of a sweet young couple on the road to a happy life together,  and us safely back to ours .

Yours in the practice,

Nan aka Sugarbaby